Posted by Craig I'm glad you found the courage to tell me what you've been going through. I appreciate how distressed you are. [I would feel the same way] I just wish that I had a brilliant and helpful response to give you. After first reading your message I searched the net for some information [ANY information] that might be helpful to you. But every jelqing site or message board that I went to that talked about jelqing all praised the 'exercise' as a 'safe way' to increase the size of ones penis. I myself have often considered jelqing and have even tried it a few times. Fortunately for me - I suppose - I never really got all that serious with it. [I'm a lazy guy by nature] I also appreciate how stressful it would have been for you to first ask your parents to take you to a urologist and then to actually be examined by him. And after all of that - it's no wonder that you were disappointed with what you feel was an inadequate examination. What can you do about it? Well... if you can find the courage AGAIN - you should see a different urologist. It does seem odd though that he would tell you that nothing is wrong. Did he at least examine your penis visually? Did he touch it? Did he ask you to get an erection and then examine it again? Did he tell you what he hoped would happen 6 months from 'now'?! If nothing else - your urologist should have been more sensitive to your concern. Far too many doctors fail to appreciate that what THEY might consider 'no problem' IS a problem for the patient. He should have examined you more thoroughly EVEN IF just to make YOU feel like he does know what he's talking about. As for your penis - when you manage to get an erection - is the left side still quite 'soft' in comparison to the right side? [I'm trying to imagine what it might look like and feel like in order to get some idea of what might be 'wrong'] Is the right side sensitive to touch or is your entire penis [when erect] rather 'numb'? Does it hurt in any way?! When you were jelqing - did you only use your right hand? I ask - because it's quite likely that your fingers would be applying more pressure to your penis than your palm. Were you quite 'aggressive' when jelqing? [Applying lots of pressure] Does it hurt to cum or pee?! Hmmm... Tell you what... I'm going to keep searching the net to see if I can be of better help. If I find something - I'll let you know. I really 'feel' for you and for what you're going through. But PLEASE don't assume your future. Maybe your penis just needs more TIME to heal. I would appreciate it if you would post another message. OR your can email me directly - if you would rather. GREAT BIG HUG
on August 31, 2007, 2:37 am, in reply to "Will I be a eunuch forever?"
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Hi James!! 
Craig!!
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