Posted by Matthew
on May 5, 2008, 5:22 am
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In my church, they tell kids... No sex before marriage. But I look at it this way...
When you're buying a new pair of shoes, do you just go to the store, aand grab a box that looks nice and then buy it without opening it? Of course not! You open the box, unwrap the shoes to see if it's what you like, then try it on to see how it feels. Then you decide if you want to buy them, or look for something a little less expensive.
Same thing with high school boys having sex with girls, and the women seem to enjoy experiencing it, as they're both searching for the perfect match!
Imagine if you followed the church rules and married a woman, then discovered on your honeymoon night that her vagina is so small you can't even get the head of your dick inside without her pushing you away in pain and telling you to stop. And you can't go looking for someone else as you're married now, so you're stuck.
What the Bible says is you can't commit Adultery. That means you can't have sex with a woman who is already married to someone else. Therefore you can only have sex with a woman who is NOT married. So it's okay to have sex before marriage.
If anyone gives you that rule, ask them if they waited until After marriage. 99.9% didn't, as they had to see if they were right for each other.
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