It was easy for me because I'm not the enabler or care taker type. I will help anyone who needs help but don't really want someone else living in my house permanently.
As for abortion. I'm glad you're doing something and not just beating the anti-choice drum. Abortion is a sad thing. It is ending a life. I still can't help feeling we have no right to force someone to carry and bear an unwanted child.
If the church, any church preaches against abortion then they should also preach FOR birth control. They can't expect to be against BOTH.