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Posted by Summer Sage on 22/10/2007, 6:55 pm, in reply to "advice on cutting old ties" I've viewed this for a couple of days to see if anyone with a long line of experience was going to answer. It looks like no takers so far. I'm rather new compared to a lot of you, so I'm not very comfortable giving advice in the witch realm yet. I am prepared to give advice on a human level, however. I did read this and have been thinking about you. I was hoping that after you shared your feelings with us that you were able to lose some of the negativity you were feeling. That happens when you're able to just get things off your chest sometimes. Friendships do end in peoples' lives and sometimes they are quite painful..because we DO care and we're all connected. All you can ever do is know what part you played in a relationship and know that you did your best. I was angry with someone and didn't speak for 19 years. After an entire chapter of poetry dedicated to this person, entitled "The Dark File"---one day, I just had an epiphany of all the things I could control and what I could not. The only thing I could control were MY feelings and no one elses. Know that you did your best expressing how you felt..and if you feel you didn't, try again. They may be feeling hurt as well..due to miscommunication or some sort of boundaries they imagined that you were unaware of or whatever ! Then, sometimes you know things were supposed to end and that's all there is to it. If that is the case..you know the old saying about time and healing. I do have one question regarding the witch's creed..the harm ye none. Does that not pertain if you're angry with someone? I find it hard to believe if they are High Priestesses that they would just forget all about that to send you negativity...however, again, on the human scale-- "..the rats of vindictiveness are always in the cellar of my soul.." -- C.S. Lewis I wish you blessing and healing. Prayers on the wind... Summer Sage
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