Posted by patti
on June 17, 2008, 12:40 am
64.190.239.103
Debra,
I too am praying for you every day. You need to know that some people are just not as strong as others, and that does not make you any less than some of us. It is just taking you longer. You are doing all the right things, you just need more help than some of us. Believe me, we all have those same days as you. Do you know that it was more than a year after Bobby died before I really laughed. I went out to dinner with my son and his new wife, and they were so much in love and so much fun, that I actually laughed for real, and let me tell you, it felt wonderful. Since that time, I have had a few more laughs, but not many. It takes a long time to feel any joy at all, and there are still days and days and days that go by when I am so sad. I have been on a crying jag for about a month now, but today I felt better.
Try this. Go out and sit in the warm sunshine and close you eyes and feel the warmth of the sun. Listen to the birds singing, and know that they are saying "God loves you Debra." Do this every day for at least 30 mintues. Praise God while you are sitting there and thank him for all the wonderful days He gave you with Dane. You will have 30 minutes of comfort from God.
You are in my prayers,
Patti
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