Posted by Rose
on February 20, 2009, 10:33 am, in reply to "Is it normal..."
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You know, after a loss such as ours...nothing is normal, our lives certainly aren't, but I think the feelings that we have, the dreams that we have are all normal..that thoughts come to us in our dreams at night. I believe God speaks to us in our dreams. You just want to see your child again....all the questions that come into our minds are normal...I think we can accept those thoughts and dreams as part of the procees, the journey and not worry about them. I always try to put together the dream and what I think it means and usually can....I think unless our thoughts go to ultimate despair and loss of hope, we should be concerned, but I think everything you are saying, we have all felt...Sometimes my dreams are nightmares and I hate them because they make me physically sick. othertimes they are peaceful and God is letting me know Dave is ok...I try to keep in mind that losing a child is the natural process of how things should not go....parents are supposed to die first and then children...death is still difficult to face even when you lose your parents, but a child...well as we all know....unbearable pain...I just want to say something to everyone....we are stronger than we think we are...afterall, you are here and you are bearing the burden...you reach out to others and that is important. we need each other to lean on....all, have a blessed weekend. Rose
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