Posted by Rose
on April 6, 2009, 9:24 am, in reply to "3 years tomorrow"
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Patti, you are not alone..we all have had our hearts broken. The way I look at it is that they are permanently broken...Once you lose a child, you are never the same...the hurt doesn't mend. You don't "get over it" as we all know. It is raining here today in NY..It rained like this the day Dave died. I hate rainy days now, where before, I didn't care what the weather was, i loved every day...Dave' two year anniversary is coming up on the 27th. His son's birthday, on the 23rd. Dave only had 4 days with Robbie. Yes...the pain is always going to be there for us...Ask God to get you through one day at a time..I don't expect to be healed of the pain, in fact, to be healed of the pain would be not to feel the loss, not to miss my son....so in a way, I still want the pain....and I am trying to use my pain, my experience to reach out to others, just like we do here...Patti, hang in there ...we are all members of the same awful club....
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