Posted by trish
on September 2, 2009, 8:18 am, in reply to "GLORIA"
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we all here feel your pain....and that pain doesn't go away we only learn how to live with it...but i do believe we really need to focus on what we have left it really helps with the healing process....this is coming from a mom who lost two boys and only has one left......don't get me wrong it doesn't stop the greif it helps....my other son needs me soooo much i can't afford to ignore him anymore.....and he is just as much loved and just as inportant as my other two boys......i still cry for my boys , i still pray for strength, there are days i don't want to go on...but then i think of my brad and i get a spark for life again...and when i see him i have the biggest smile and hug for him...and its real....after almost loosing him in an accident also it showed to me i need to apreciate and show my love for him cause as we know in life there is no garrenties that i will see him tomorro.... of all people i should've known this...he just got engaged and it is such a bitter sweet time even for him..he had such a hard time picking the wedding party cause matt was to be his best man....and there is no one that is his family(brothers)in his wedding....but in the same breath we told brad we will miss matt there so much but this is his and shelley's day and we will make it a happy one....matt and christopher will be there in our hearts...i told him i will have my moments but ill just look over at him and i know the joy will fill my heart again...we can't change the past but we do have control on how we deal with our grief.....i guess what i really want to say is that we really need to look at the loved ones around us and give them their aknowledgement..and let them know they are soooo loved... it honestly helps the emptyness in our hearts.....
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