Think about the healthy ones. Would they resent being left the care of the dependent ones? Would it be fair to ask them to be? That could be a lifetime job they may not want. An overwhelming responsibility no matter how much they love the disabled ones. What if something happens to one or both of the the healthy ones? None of us are getting any younger.
You may want to approach them all together one day soon and discuss it with them, hard as it would be to do that. Or maybe talk to one at a time if that would be easier for you and them. You would get a general idea of how they feel about the situation and whether or not they would feel burdened or resentful.
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