I had most of those things also.
We had a 3 bedroom Tudor right off Elliot Ave, with a nice front and back yard beautifully landscaped. Stores could be walked to as was the park. The neighborhood is still beautiful with well kept homes. But as we both learned, that is no guarantee of a happy forever marriage. But I only had one child to control, not 3 or 4. After the second miscarriage I had my tubes done. I was not mother material and had no interest in having more children or miscarriages.